Suggestions for Parents
of Children Who Stutter

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1. Speak with your child in an unhurried way, pausing frequently. Wait a few seconds after your child finishes speaking before you begin to speak. Your own slow, relaxed speech will be far more effective than any?ÿcriticism or advice such as ƒ??slow downƒ?? or ƒ??try it again slowly.ƒ??

2. Reduce the number of questions you ask your child. Children speak more freely if they are expressing their own ideas?ÿrather than answering an adultƒ??s questions. Instead of asking?ÿquestions, simply comment on what your child has said, thereby?ÿletting him know you heard him.

3. Use your facial expressions and other body language to convey to?ÿyour child, when she stutters, that you are listening to the content?ÿof her message and not to how sheƒ??s talking.

4. Set aside a few minutes at a regular time each day when you can give your undivided attention to your child. During this time, let the child choose what he would like to do. Let?ÿhim direct you in activities and decide himself whether to talk or?ÿnot. When you talk during this special time, use slow, calm, and?ÿrelaxed speech, with plenty of pauses. This quiet, calm time can be a?ÿconfidence-builder for younger children, serving to let them know?ÿthat a parent enjoys their company. As the child gets older, it can?ÿserve as a time when the child feels comfortable talking about his?ÿfeelings and experiences with a parent.

5. Help all members of the family learn to take turns talking and?ÿlistening.
Children, especially those who stutter, find it much easier to talk?ÿwhen there are few interruptions and they have the listenersƒ?? attention.

6. Observe the way you interact with your child. Try to increase those times that give your child the message that you?ÿare listening to her and she has plenty of time to talk. Try to?ÿdecrease criticisms, rapid speech patterns, interruptions, and?ÿquestions..

7. Above all, convey that you accept your child as he is. Your own slower, more relaxed speech and the things you do to help?ÿbuild his confidence as a speaker are likely to increase his fluency?ÿand diminish his stuttering. The most powerful force, however, will?ÿbe your support of him whether he stutters or not.

The following books are available for a nominal cost:

If Your Child Stutters: A Guide for Parents, 7th edition, Publication?ÿNo. 0011, 64 pages

Stuttering and Your Child: Questions and Answers, 3rd edition,?ÿPublication No. 0022, 64 pages

Do You Stutter: A Guide for Teens, 4th edition, Publication No. 0021,?ÿ72 pages.

The following DVDs are available:

Stuttering and Your Child: Help for Parents, DVD 0073, 30 minutes

Stuttering: For Kids, By Kids, DVD 0172, 12 minutes

Stuttering: Straight Talk for Teens, DVD 1076, 30 minutes